I want to email this girl I am interested in, any tips? (Girls Only Please)?

I like this girl, but I don't get to see her too often, and we can't really hang out. And she doesnt use instant messenger. I want to start emailing her, just to get to know her better. Are there any tips or things I should be aware of when emailing her?





I know I shouldn't respong immedietly. What makes a girl want to start emailing some one?





I just really like this girl, and want to take every precaution.
I want to email this girl I am interested in, any tips? (Girls Only Please)?
Just send her a casual, breezy email stating the facts.





E.g. "Hi Jane, how are you? Just wanted to say hi, I figure this is the best way for us to chat since we don't see each other often or can't really hang out. What have you been up to?"





P.S. If you want to talk on IM sometime let me know and I will add you to my list.





Right there you have casually showed your interest in her, successfully initiated conversation and subtly encouraged her to start IM-ing.





If she's interested in you she will more that likely start using IM and give you the address as suggested or tell you why she doesn't but encourage email conversations.





Don't be too pushy and come on too strong...get to know her, ask open ended questions -- those that require elaboration (e.g. what's would be your perfect thing to do for summer?) so that she can feel relaxed and open up and talk like she's talking to a friend. The more you guys talk the closer you will get but you've got to be creative in showing her that you like her because you don't want to get stuck in the friend zone. So after a few friendly emails back annd forth say something like "Sometimes I wish we could see each other more...it would be cool to talk in person once in a while" that says without saying it that you want to see her and it doesn't sound like just a friend saying "we should hang out"





Here's something you can do as well, after a few questions back and forth say something like "I'm sorry if it seems like I'm asking a lot of questions...I'd just like to get to know you better" it's better to say it that way than to say "I'm just trying to get to know you". When you say "I'd like to" it says without saying I like you and I like getting to know you better. As opposed to just asking questions to know more about someone.





Good luck hon.
Reply:first of all, im a guy.


but, girls like to know that a guy is interested in them. i dont know your situation but if you really like her and you might think she likes you why dont you send her an email about something you have talked about or a picture of both of you or something along those lines that inspires a response from her which you can turn into a long email chain.
Reply:Just try to be yourself through your messages. Don't feel too hurt if she doesn't get back to you right away, not everyone likes to email..I hate it.


First email keep it short and simple..hows it going, let her know what your up to, do want to hang out, sort of stuff.


If she wasn't the one to give you her email let her know how you got it.


peace and g'luck!
Reply:hmm thats a hard one. Are you sure you guys cant talk at all? If you really cant talk to her in person (which would be a million times better), you could ask for her number and talk to her on the phone. do that because then it shows her that you care about her enough to actually talk to her. The email thing is not going to work out unless you guys are already good friends. Just forget the email.
Reply:plain and simple





u wana be a stud????





follow my rules





look at all the girls who answered your question and do the total oppisite





lie


act confident


and dont be too sweet because then youll be a suck up!





be a man and never ask a question like this again!
Reply:long term relationships are tough...maybe you should try to start things up with someone who is close to you...
Reply:talking on the phone would be way better even though it can be awkward it sounds more sincere
Reply:lol u make girls sound like we are so complicated....haha.


no but....just say hey..aha seriously...what harm does that do. lol


don't worry about tips. things always work themselves out
Reply:Make her laugh,compliment her and be sweet
Reply:be honest with yourslef and her





we dont like liars or anything of the sort





treat her like a best friend....
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